5 rules for a happy relationship

 5 rules for a happy relationship

It is not easy to keep the intensity of a relationship at the same level throughout its duration. In the initial phase, you will even be overwhelmed by the emotions accompanying you and the hormones bubbling up inside you, but over time they will begin to subside, and your relationship will fall into a routine. How do you ensure that in each phase of the relationship you feel good with each other and do not get bored in each other's company? Here are the five golden rules of a successful relationship that you must bring into your romantic relationship!

1 - Talk
Even if you think you have nothing to talk about today, try to force yourself to do so. The initial topic doesn't have to be fascinating, you can start with some news you've read in your commute to work or with the question "how was your day". This will help you rediscover a common language or simply maintain your friendly relationship, which is the foundation of a relationship. With daily conversation, you will level the possibility of a distance between you to practically zero. Moreover, you will still get to know each other better during such a conversation, which will greatly improve your bond.

2 - Touch each other
Touch is the basis for knocking down walls and breaking the ice. Without touch, unfortunately, our relationship can regress greatly. If you used to kiss regularly, holding hands whenever you went out, but until some time you don't do it at all, you subconsciously build a wall around you that will be very hard to break through with words. Re-implementing touch into your daily life can prove difficult and uncomfortable, especially if you don't know how to talk about it. In addition, touch helps beat stress and supports the production of happiness hormones, which will help you strengthen the bonds of your relationship.

3. change your surroundings
Routine can creep into your life from all sides, and if on top of that you sit at home all day watching TV series, there is no way to break it. That's why it's so important to change your surroundings. It could be going out to a restaurant once a week or watching a movie you both have been waiting for a long time at the theater. A change of environment will help you break out of the cacophony and provide you with new emotions, so that the shared impressions and memories will stay with you for longer. Just remember not to make the change of environment your routine.

4. make surprises for yourself
If you know someone long and deeply, you can most likely tell what would make the other person happy. If so, don't wait and do it right away. Small surprises without occasions will not only get you out of a rut, but will also add a little spice to your relationship. It could be a dish from his favorite restaurant ordered as a take-out for a no occasion dinner, or her favorite flowers given just to please her. In addition, this shows that you still remember each other and listen to each other attentively, which will tie you very strongly to each other and make you feel closer than ever.

5 - Give each other space
If you have a fight or clearly don't feel like talking to each other, let go for a while. You don't need to have an intense relationship all the time. Let each of you carve out a private space in your apartment where you can escape when needed. Also, determine for yourselves when you have time just for yourselves and must not be disturbed. A healthy distance will allow you to cool off and not get tired of each other, and taking a break from each other will give you time to think and breathe. If you don't have room in your apartment, you can go to your favorite cafes or the library, but determine your places first so that you don't bump into each other in them.